Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Homeschool organization: Workboxes and How we do Chores


You have heard before that if you fail to plan that you plan to fail.  This is especially true in home schooling. 

Organization is not always something we are born with, sometimes it is just survival.  When you home school, and have littles running around, organization is the difference between getting your goals accomplished and pulling out your hair!
I am sharing with you about two things I have implemented to get and stay organized, even though I use way more than these.  

One thing that has helped our home school day tremendously is Sue Patrick’s Work Box system.  I have pictures on my blog that show how we have made this work for all five children that are doing school.  Next year we will add another at school age, and that will leave just one baby to manage whilst doing school.  

In a nutshell, the workbox system is simply a $12 shoe rack from Target or Wal-Mart, with 12 clear plastic Sterlite shoe boxes without the lids at about $2 each. For about $40 including tax, this gives you twelve places to store their school things. You use one for each task or subject that you would like them to accomplish.  They are numbered, and you include any items needed to accomplish what you set them, so there would be a pencil in every box that contains worksheets.  

The idea is to get them to function as independently as possible.  If you have multiple kiddos to teach or occupy this becomes absolutely invaluable.  At least until evolution catches up with our need for eight arms.  

Your upper grammar aged children (around 8 to around age 12) should be able to do a great deal of work on their own, with you possibly giving instructions or a short lesson and then setting them on task.  This takes a great deal of training, especially if you have accomplished school in another manner up till now, but it is really worth the investment!  The author says she trained hers at 18 mos to use these; I have not started that young, but definitely by age two & ½ or three.  These tasks are more like coloring or a quiet activity they can do with little help.  Again, the training is time intensive at first, but you really reap great rewards! 

You can mix up the boxes with self directed tasks and tasks that require mom intervention.  Since I work with more than one student, I try to put a few independents in a row, and then a mom’s help is needed here box, then at least another independent box.
This system works well with any age and any curriculum.  But what if you have a student that is dyslexic or an older student that this is too juvenile for?  

For my older students, I bought Sterilite 6 drawer craft carts on wheels, and didn’t install the wheels.  These have attached lids, and are 12x12, so larger books and projects fit nicely.  For my highschooler, I stacked one on top of another to give her enough drawers.  For my two fifth graders they each have one set.  

These are pricey, at about $40 each, but well worth it.  When the baby comes by and pulls out a drawer, the lid is on it and clicked closed so it is very unlikely that anything falls out.  

The benefit of the workbox system is twofold; one, it keeps your student on track, and they can see how much they have accomplished that day and how much more they have to do, and two, it forces you to decide what you want them to do each day. 

Keeping your home tidy enough to do school in is just as important as planning out your school day.  This has derailed us many more days than I would like to admit.  It is hard to do school when you have jelly or syrup on the table and dishes stacked to the ceiling.  And who can snuggle up with all those great Sonlight readers when every couch and chair in the living room is covered in laundry? 

The best book on chores that I have found is Managers of Their Chores.  This has been an invaluable tool in our home, and despite my fears that the Maxwell’s would be way stricter than I could ever maintain, this system has worked well for us for the past three years.  When I got this book, I dove into it like a desperate woman pregnant with baby #6.
Essentially, every kiddo has a “chore pack” that they carry around with them while doing chores.  In the pack are the paper cards that tell them which chore to do.   They look at the card, do the chore, and then move the card to the back of the pack. When they are done, they move on to the next one, repeating till they are done with all their assigned chores.  

The beauty of the system is that there is no longer a need to nag them to do the next thing.  You spend a goodly amount of time instructing them on the way you expect the chore to be done, let them practice till they are confident they can do it alone, and then turn them loose! Of course there are consequences for not getting the chores done.
Also, Mrs. Maxwell tells you to only keep your house as clean as your husband expects!  This was so freeing to me!  Perfection goes out the window, and reality comes to shatter the all or nothing attitude that keeps most of us frozen and walking around in chaos.  She also lays out safety tips, and what you can reasonably expect out of children at certain ages.  

What this looks like at our house: every morning the kids get up and come downstairs to get their chore packs.  They do roughly 13 chores each before we start school at nine (hopefully)! They look like this for my nine year old:
#1 make your bed
#2 get dressed
#3 put away your pj’s
#4 brush your teeth
#5 brush your hair
#6 wash your face
#7 bring down your dirty clothes
#8 get breakfast and help your buddy get breakfast
#9 unload dishwasher
#10 mop kitchen
#11 tidy upstairs bathroom
#12 feed chickens
#13 be ready to start school by 9am!

Then they have afternoon chores to get done before dinner time.  This keeps our house livable.  Not spotless, not really company ready, just livable! And my husband doesn’t wonder what we did all day. 

A few extra things that I use to keep myself organized:
  • I keep a mom notebook with general stuff that I use nearly every day, so that I don’t have to hunt it down all the time. 
  • I keep a teacher’s notebook for our curriculum, things like answer keys to the maps and quizzes, teacher’s notes, etc. 
  • I keep a clipboard with me at all times, with my to do lists, grocery lists, menu for the week and even what clothes I need to buy for each child.  You would think I could remember, but with seven, I can’t.  This clipboard is my external hard drive.  Yes, it is a scary time when I lose it.  I even take it to bed – it lives on my nightstand!
  • I also keep a yearly planning binder, with the broad picture outlined for the year.  Mostly this is high school stuff, with credits, course descriptions, semester plans, a master calendar, etc. 
Lastly, always have a backup plan! When your day goes south for whatever reason, make sure you have things to help you make the most of whatever mess you find yourself in.  These would include: Bill Nye the science Guy DVD’s from the library, books on tape, geography puzzles, arts and craft supplies, and educational videos. 
Free planning sheets and lots of other printables at www.donnayoung.org

Monday, December 12, 2011

The Sanctity of Life

I just heard a few days ago that the Duggars lost the most recent pregnancy.  I wonder how many of us thought "How sad" followed by "They have enough already" or "That was baby #21"
It makes me wonder if we as a christian community are really pro-life, or just anti-abortion. 

Miscarriage is a strange and sad thing.  I know I have refrained from telling people when I have miscarried out of trepidation of what they might say.  Not fear, mind you, I just don't want to hear their true heart on the matter.  My OB said it best one time; "It is a life that was lost, it is ok to mourn for it." 

I for one am truly sorry, and my heart goes out to the Duggar family. 

Friday, November 11, 2011

Busy Mom's Weight Loss Plan

This is totally tongue in cheek; however there is some truth to it!  I thought of this brilliant plan the other morning as I was still in my pj's at 11am.

First, make sure you are nursing an infant.  This is very important, as it increases the busyness factor by 10+. 
Then, don't eat breakfast til after 11am most everyday- this is sure to throw your body into glucose confusion. 
Thirdly, only eat the crusts of your other children's sandwiches at lunch, while nursing the infant for the nineth time that day. 
Other helpful tips: don't get a nap- make sure you are good and sleep deprived.  Don't drink enough water, this is probably the most helpful tip of them all. 
This also does a great job of making sure you are in a great mood and does wonders for your memory!
A sure fire way to have a great school day and clean house!

OK, so not really.  But if we don't laugh at ourselves, there are plenty of others willing to do it for us!

Monday, September 5, 2011

Real help for Dyslexia

Our 10 yr old daughter has dyslexia.  She is not a typical dyslexic, however, she was still struggling to read first grade readers in the fourth grade.  We had been praying for a while about what direction to take.  A friend told us about Mrs. Bea Edwards with Dyslexia Dear, a not for profit organization that she helped to found.  We started the 12 week program last May, and finished in late August.  It took roughly twelve weeks.  This program deals with the root cause of dyslexia, not just the symptoms.  She has had great success!  She is now working her way through the Sonlight third grade readers, and we are not very far from starting the 4th-5th grade readers, putting us on grade level!  This may not sound like a very big achievement, but unless you have a dyslexic you do not know their pain.  This is a three grade level jump for her- remember I said she was struggling with first grade readers.  Her sisters and brothers can see the huge difference in her reading, and so can we.  I am so very thankful that God led us to this program.  We could have wasted a lot of time, energy and $$, not to mention self esteem.  My only regret is that we didn't find this two years ago.  

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Some Fresh Ideas on How to Keep a Toddler Busy (other than the T.V.)




 As you can see, my littlest guy is busy!  And really into what he should not be into!  And he has a three year old brother, and a five year old sister!  They really enjoy school, and it would occupy them for a few hours every day.  But then there is the seven year old in first grade, two sixth graders, and the tenth grader!  

The following list is meant to help you when you need to be doing something (nursing the baby, cooking, doing school with an older sibling), but need your toddler to be busy also and not into mischief.  The ideas here are not all my original ideas; some were compiled through conversations with other moms, some from online forums, and some from websites. 

  • Do your task during naptime (OK, duh, but sometimes we overlook the obvious)
  • Keep a tub of toys that are just for this special occasion (i.e.- nursing the baby)- “OK, it is time for mommy to nurse the baby so you may get out the special tub and play while I am nursing, but when baby is done and burped and changed then you will have to put the toy back in the tub”.  This keeps it special and makes them feel a little less left out.  Keep it simple, but a favorite, and DON’T let them play with it outside of this time.  Rotate these weekly or so to keep it fresh.
  • A swimming pool is your best friend.  What?!?  No, really.  Get a small blow up pool on clearance, and keep it for special play.  Here is the premise:  if you allow legos, only allow legos in the pool.  This keeps the mess contained.  You could allow finger painting on an easel, in the pool. Once they are done paining give them a small spray bottle and sponge to “clean” up the easel with.  OR let them pour rice into containers.  Beans are a choking hazard so I don’t recommend them, but rice just gives you a tummy ache if you eat it raw (from experience).  Use the pool for any small or messy thing you would like to keep contained.  Put it in the kitchen with you while you are in there, and you can keep a decent eye on what is going on.  Again, only allow those activities/toys played with in the pool to be used at those times and only in the pool.  We call ours the “school pool”.  A table cloth could also work on some of these things, it is just not as good at containing the messes.  The pool should not be used as a regular pool would be- keep it special! Another pro- if it gets too messy take it out back and hose it off, then hang it up in the garage to dry all the way.  Or dry it out with a towel, but store it out of sight. 
  • Allow them to “wash” dishes in the sink.  Get play dishes, put a small amount of soap in a dishpan, run the water at a trickle, and pull up a step stool.  Your little guy will think he is in heaven! (then they can dry them when the washing is no fun anymore!)
  • A largish tub filled 1/3 full of bath warm water (like a storage tub).  Use this in your kitchen in your full sight (no slipping on the tile).  Give them some containers and or a toy.  This is a 20 minute treat!  Keep some towels handy and in the end you get a clean kiddo and a clean floor!  Seriously!
  • During school time my toddlers have usually had some kind of coloring activity that is only allowed during school time.  OR Do-A-Dot, watercolor painting, washable markers, etc. 
  • PLAY-DO!  Homemade is the bestest, there are lots of recipes on the web, even for edible play do!  Just reserve for when you really need an activity!
  • Don’t underestimate the power of older siblings.  We take turns and have a buddy system at our house (we have six, about to be seven).  For example, I need to work with Timmy on his math, so it is Sara’s turn to play with the toddler for 20 min.  Then I switch them around when I need to work with Sara, and use another sibling.  This allows me to spread myself a bit thinner.  They don’t have to be really old; a four year old can entertain a two year old for 20 min if they are trained to do so.  You won’t want them at the other end of the house, but it can get you 20 min! It also spreads sibling friendship and loyalty. 
  • Enlist your older kids to help you in your task!  Ten year olds can cook simple meals, or do meal prep.  Five year olds can use a dust buster or swiffer wipe, put away books and pillows, and usually can be convinced to teach little brother how to do these things as well!  They love being helpers and teachers!  My older ones hardly give me a chance to teach the younger ones how to read! 
You may not have older siblings to help in these areas; if not, don’t lament!  They will grow!  Life with littles is hard, but worth it!  Take the time now to train them in the small things and you will reap wonderful rewards in the future!  They can sit still for a few minutes and work on their own!  They are not in your way!  Don’t cast them aside- include them in your day!  They days are long but the years are short. An example of the fruit you stand to reap: my older ones are responsible for making their own beds and helping a younger one with his bed.  They help them get dressed, brush teeth and comb hair. 
But it started with training them when they were two.  I walked them through the picking up of pillows, carrying dirty clothes to the laundry, making their beds, etc.  Train them up correctly now, and when you have more children they will be a wonderful blessing to you!  I am often asked how I “do it” with so many children.  I don’t!  I have help! It is self made help, true, but help none the less.  Also realize that a five year old sweeping job of the kitchen is not the same as a ten year old, or a fifteen year old!  But praise their efforts!  Any help you get is more than nothing! And it builds relationships in your family.  And relationships are all you get to take with you – all the rest is simply ash.

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Virtual Schools

I am not sure why virtual schools are so appealing to homeschoolers, but apparently they are.  Or at least their advertising dollars are.  I am seeing increased advertising for these so-called virtual homeschools that actually enroll you in a public school in your state in homeschool magazines.  WHAT?!??

Why are we selling out to any advertiser that has the words home and school in close proximity on the page?

Mary Pride's Magazine Practical Homeschooling sold out to the dollar a while back.  She is supposed to be an advocate of homeschooling.  In response to my complaint she basically said that they didn't see anything wrong with the advertisement.  I cancelled my subscription. 

The latest disappointment is "Home Educating Family" magazine.  These are the same people who bring you the Well Planned Day Planner (I have one!)  They have a full page spread in one issue (I have not checked every issue). 

Seriously? 

Here is a link to OCHEC's website (our state homeschooling organization) which also has quotes from HSLDA on this subject: http://www.ochec.com/Categories.aspx?Id=03d24fa8-ffa7-40ad-8795-94ffee360e23&%LINKIN%28PS_At_Home_Truth%29%

HSLDA and OCHEC say that they strongly discourage signing up for these type of programs. 

I say you might as well put them in your local school.  That is "virtually" what you are doing. 

My real question here though is this: why are we allowing the almighty dollar to rule our business practices as Christians and homeschoolers?

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Another great blog post (not by me)

http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/motherhood-as-a-mission-field

OK, I promise I have not been plagiarizing this godly woman's blog posts!  If you look back, you can see my articles were in Jan, hers in June.  Promise! I suppose that it doesn't help that one of mine titled "Motherhood is a real ministry, really" is still in the draft stage.  I suppose God is going to get His message out no matter what! 

She really does a beautiful job at it, this post is no exception.